Up & Down

we tend to easily take things for granted .once we lose those valuable and precious things..there you go..weeping like there's no tomorrow. that's what i have experienced before and of course no matter how hard you try, those 'll never come back to you..

it's not necessary to be those ''lovey-dovey thing what-so-ever-u-called-it'' , they can be those litte, tiny events or people who always around you, but then..in a blink..they are no longer there for you..to accompany your days, to cheer u up..to weep your tears and to give laughters ..

these few years back, i have experienced lots of loss..of course..all happens for reasons and who are we to avoid from Allah's will.

and recently, i have lost my uncle in an accident. It's such a shock to us, our family and the rest. i still can recall vividly what happen on that tragic day. i just cannot bear to see my cousins and beloved aunt's condition. it was a long day for me, to avoid myself from weeping but to see how strong my aunt was, i gained my strength as well. HOWever, i;m very relieved as i;m able to help my aunt to ease her feeling and try to do things for her. i;m blessed to be at her side and helpin to arrange few things on that day.

losing is part and parcel of lives right?..but to what extent you can cope with the loss..it does matter..

may this new year promises us , the whole big family, a better future,loves and care towards each of us. May Allah give bless on us..aminn..:)